Tips & Offers to Help You Strengthen the Relationship
with Those Closest to You
Have you thought about getting a copy of Questions to Bring You Closer to Dad, Questions to Bring You Closer to Mom, or
Questions to Bring You Closer to Grandma & Grandpa -- but then decided that you might not know how to "really get started"?
Below are some offers from the series authors along with ways you can get the conversation started on your own.

                      OFFER # 1: Author Stuart Gustafson will send you an autographed copy of your choice of books -- Questions to
Bring You Closer to Dad
, Questions to Bring You Closer to Mom, or Questions to Bring You Closer to Grandma & Grandpa.
He will then personally call you (at his expense) and will spend 30 minutes answering
your questions,and/ or giving you
some tips on how to start the conversation for asking the questions that are in the books. Arrangement of time for the phone
call must be mutually agreed, and the 30 minutes is limited to a single phone call (limited to the United States and Canada).
Price $59.00 USD ($85 Value)


                      OFFER # 2: Author Stuart Gustafson will send an autographed copy of your choice of books -- Questions to Bring
You Closer to Dad
, Questions to Bring You Closer to Mom, or Questions to Bring You Closer to Grandma & Grandpa to the
person you want to answer the questions (such as your Dad, your Mom, or your grandparent(s)). He will then call this person
(at his expense) and will spend 30 minutes explaining the book and getting answers to some of the questions. He will
record those answers in a copy of the book that he then personalizes and autographs for you. He will mail the book to you,
and call you for 30 minutes to go over the answers he received, and to give you additional guidance on how to continue the
process. Arrangement of time for the phone calls must be mutually agreed, and each 30 minute-call is limited to a single
phone call (limited to the United States and Canada).
Price $110.00 USD ($170 Value)


WAYS TO GET STARTED ON YOUR OWN:
1. If you live close by, take your copy of the book with you the next time you visit. Show them the book and say, "I just picked up
this book at the store and it is interesting. May I ask you a few of the questions that I've read?"

2. If your Mom, Dad, or grandparent(s) are coming to your place, leave the book in a prominent (but not overly obvious) spot.
Let them notice the book and ask about it.  You can then say, "It's great reading, and it also has some good questions in it.
Do you mind if I ask you some?"

3. If you exchange e-mails with your Mom or Dad (even if only occasionally), send an e-mail telling them about this "new
book" you just got. Don't get too long-winded in describing the book, but then say, "How about if I send you one of the
questions every other day, and then you will have time to respond before the next question gets there?" You can also do this
with grandparents fi they have e-mail. If not, mail them a short note explaining what you want them to do.

4. Surprise your Mom or Dad by calling them on a night when you know they are usually home. If they sound surprised that
you called them, just say, "I just picked up a great book, and I wanted to call so I could ask you a couple of questions from it."
This also works  with grandparents.

5. Select no more than six questions from the book, and write them (in your own handwriting) on some sheets of paper - two
questions per sheet. Mail those questions along with a brief note telling them about this new book you found at the store,
and that you would like them to write their answers on the pages and send them back to you.

6. Most of our grandparents had different situations when they went to school. Start a conversation with them by simply
asking, "What was it like when you went to school? Did you go to a big school or a small one?"

7. Another set of questions that is fun to ask (of Mom or Dad, but especially of Grandma or Grandpa) is "How did you learn to
drive? Who taught you? What was your first car?"
Copyright (c) 2007-2008 by Stuart Gustafson and Robyn Freedman Spizman. All Rights Reserved